Saturday, May 24, 2008

My Favorite Things: A Light, Mindless "Fluff" Post for the Weekend



"Brown paper packages tied up with strings /
These are a few of my favorite things..." -The Sound of Music

The thesis of the song "My Favorite Things," of course, is that thinking of life's little blessings, things that make one happy, might take the edge of any unpleasantness at hand and actually remind us to be grateful.

Let's see if it works.

This week has been a bit of a roller coaster.

Earlier this week I walked in to help a couple of colleagues with a patient who was hypotensive with septic shock on the table and subsequently got a lot of appreciation from the people involved with the case.

Then a surgeon at one of my hospitals complained I had insulted her after I told her in a pretty determined way that her patient was not an appropriate candidate for surgery at that particular hospital in the current state the patient was in.

Then at another hospital a patient's family told me I was their favorite doctor during their whole ordeal at the place and that I had really made a difference in a way that reduced their anxiety about their loved one's care.

Then I got into a disagreement with someone in my anesthesia group (now smoothed-over).

At some point I had some good news, about an essay I wrote getting included in an anthology due to be published this fall.

Then yesterday a CRNA I was working with had trouble intubating her patient and I stepped in to try, certain that if she, who had been practicing anesthesia for as long as I'd been alive and had actually helped train some of my colleagues, couldn't get the airway, then I certainly didn't have a better chance. Relief replaced alarm when the tube went into the right place. But after that the O.R. kept running till midnight. Again.

Now I'm a little tired. But I'm also on call. As luck would have it the weather's supposed to be glorious this whole holiday weekend.

Thus I'm trying to think of my favorite things, so that

"when the call bites /
when O.B. stings /
when I'm feeling sad /
I simply remember my favorite things /
and then I don't feel so bad..."

Here they are, then, like a giant meme. I've grouped my "things" into four sections: general, books, movies/music/performing arts, and food. Thanks to Katy who writes the blog Funny Girl for getting me thinking about the book section!

My Favorite Things

Accent:  Scottish, Australian
Animal: Alpaca
Artist:  Norman Rockwell
Bird: Snowy owl
Building: The National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C.; Chartres Cathedral
Cities: Florence; Paris; Boston; London
Color: Blue
Country: France; the U.S.
Experience: hearing a brass concert at Gore Place, or Dixieland at Cate Park, on a picnic blanket w/ husband and kids; a great, relaxing massage
Flower: rose (red or white)
"Foreign" accent: Scottish
Historical person: hmm...gotta come back to that one
Hobby: blogging! and of course, oboe
Holiday: Christmas
Invention: writing; indoor plumbing; warm showers
Language: to hear – French, Russian; to express ideas – English
Make-up: MAC
Outfit: comfortable blue jeans, tank top, and button-down work shirt
Painting: Hilltop Farm in Winter by Maxfield Parrish
Pen: Sanford Uniball Grip Fine (micro tip)
Place: our cabin in New Hampshire
Saint: René Goupil
School: Stone Ridge School of the Sacred Heart; Harvard College
School subject: English, French, social studies
Scripture passage: Romans 8: 38-39
Sport to do: if dance could be considered a sport, I’d say that
Sport to watch: Men’s gymnastics
State: Vermont
Store: Borders
Time period: 19th century
Thing-to-do from a to-do list: Wrap Christmas presents

Books / Literary Favorites

Fictional characters: Atticus Finch, Sherlock Holmes, Elizabeth Proctor
Magazine/periodical: Image Journal; O
Nonfiction book: On Writing Well by William Zinsser
Novels for adultsTo Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee; The Help by Kathryn Stockett; Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver; The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time by Mark Haddon; Gilead by Marilynne Robinson; Lying Awake by Mark Salzman
Novel for children: Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt
Novel for young adults: A Ring of Endless Light by Madeleine L’Engle; Two from Galilee by Marjorie Holmes
Picture book for children: The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey by Susan Wojciekowski and The Fourth Wise Man by Summers; Hooway for Wodney Wat by Helen Lester
Poem: Barter by Sara Teasdale, Stammerer on Scree by Owen Sheers
Poet(s): Herbert, Hopkins, Donne
Short story: The Expert on God by John L’Heureux and Roman Fever by Edith Wharton

Movies, Music, & Performing Arts Faves

Action movie: Independence Day; King Arthur; Troy; Kingdom of Heaven
Actor: Edward Norton, Hugh Jackman
Actress: Scarlett Johansson, Reese Witherspoon, Anna Popplewell
Black-and-white movie: To Kill a Mockingbird; also, Roman Holiday & Casablanca
Cartoon: Pinky & the Brain
Comedy (movie): By the Light of the Silvery Moon; While You Were Sleeping; Elf; The Trouble with Angels; Little Miss Sunshine
Drama (movie): The Mission; The Illusionist
Movie moment: dictation scene in Amadeus
Musicals:  The Secret Garden, Jesus Christ Superstar, Annie, Chess, Les Miz, Miss Saigon, Wicked, The Sound of Music, Legally Blonde
Period flick: A Christmas Carol starring George C. Scott; A Room with a View
Scary movie: The Exorcism of Emily Rose
Sci Fi movie: Independence Day
Screen kiss: Jeremy Irons' in And Now Ladies and Gentlemen
T.V. Show: Bones; The West Wing; Star Trek: the Next Generation; Star Trek: Voyager; Boomtown

Cellist: Rufus Cappadocia
Choral piece: Os justi by Bruckner; There is No Rose by Stroope
Christmas carol: In Dulci Jubilo; Ding Dong Merrily on High; O Come, O Come Emmanuel; O Come All Ye Faithful
Concerto: Concierto de Aranjuez by Rodrigo; Piano Concerto #17 in D by Mozart
Oboe piece: Concerto for Oboe and Strings by Ralph Vaughan Williams
Oboist: Celia Nicklin
Orchestral work(s): Appalachian Spring, Fanfare for the Common Man, and Rodeo by Copland; millennium parade music from Epcot Center; 4th Movement of Tchaikovsky's Suite #4
Piano piece: Prelude in G minor by Rachmaninoff; Sonata in B minor by Liszt
Pop Song: Who Knew
Violinist:  Gil Shaham
Religious song: By the Rivers of Babylon by Marty Haugen

Ballet, classical: Sleeping Beauty
Ballet, contemporary: In the Middle Somewhat Elevated by William Forsythe
Ballet, overall: Revelations by Alvin Ailey
Dance company: Alvin Ailey Dance Company
Sung play, not exactly a musical: Missionaries by Elizabeth Swados
Opera: Amahl and the Night Visitors by Giancarlo Menotti; Der RosenkavalierLa Boheme; Tosca
Operetta: Die Fledermaus
Play, comic: Noises Off by Michael Frayn and You Can't Take It With You by George S. Kaufman and Moss Hart (esp. the Jason Robards production that aired on TV in the'80's)
Play, dramatic: The Crucible by Arthur Miller; The Arabian Nights by Mary Zimmerman; Proof; Copenhagen; Amadeus; Equus

Food Favorites

Appetizer: baked brie en croute with a bit of a fruit-&-nut layer
Beverage, cold: water
Beverage, hot: Viennese Chocolate Café coffee by International Foods
Breakfast: coffee & croissant, just like Dr. Crusher on Star Trek:  the Next Generation; cereal & berries with a little fromage blanc or Greek-style yogurt; tartines; Tita M’s ensaymadas
Cake: opera gateau; the Philippine cake known as sans rival; sachertorte; one at Whole Foods that has little pink flowers on it and beige buttercream icing
Cheese: Bailey Hazen Blue; Stichelton; Reypenaer; Comte; Boursin
Chocolate: Godiva; Toblerone (milk > dark > white)
Cookie: chocolate chip cookies from the now-closed “David’s Cookies” chain in New York (the online version’s not the same, somehow, and you miss out on the amazing aroma of fresh-out-of-the-oven, warm, chocolate chunk cookies at the bakeshop…); also, Taiwanese "ChocoRoll: pudding flavor" cylindral cookies covered with milk chocolate
Dessert: crème brûlée
Dip: Whole Foods' Smoky Harissa Hummus; fresh guacamole
Fruit: Philippine mango; blackberry
Hors d’oeuvres: bacon-wrapped scallops; crab rangoon
Ice cream: Oreo ice cream by J.P. Licks, slathered with hot fudge of course; Ginger Snap & Molasses ice cream at Rancatore's; Tres Leches by Haagen-Dasz
Main Course: really good Thai food
Meat/Fish: teriyaki beef skewers; great prime rib; grilled trout
Merienda: Philippine mangoes with bagoong; croissants; churros con chocolate
Pasta: butternut squash ravioli with a light sage-infused or maple-cream sauce
Rice dish: wild mushroom/porcini/morel risotto; Philippine garlic fried rice
Salad: my cousin Gaita’s Insalata Pacifica at her restaurant, Cibo; Thai Crunch Salad or Field Greens Salad at CPK; Cobb salad with sherry vinaigrette at Not Your Average Joe’s
Side order: the now-defunct Tony Roma’s onion ring loaf; sauteed onions and potatoes seasoned with a little salt and pepper; brown or white rice
Sidewalk snack: French crêpes
Soup: lobster bisque with lemon grass and coconut milk at Top of the Hub in Boston
Really, really, really bad, eat-it-only-once-a-year-in-small-servings type of junk food: Barbecue-flavored Doritos (I think they stopped making these…thank goodness…)
Really, really, really bad, eat-it-only-once-a-year-in-small-servings type of sweet food: chocolate-frosted Krispy Kreme doughnuts; cupcakes
Vegetable: green bean, I guess

I do feel a little better. I think I'll go have a cupcake...

6 comments:

katy (aka funny girl) said...

Well, this just gets better and better. Thanks so much for the shout out!!

I had to comment on a couple of your faves. Here they are, in no real order:

1. Amahl and the Night Visitors was the first show I ever did. I don't remember it at all, as I was maybe 5 years old, but it kicked off a lifetime of musical performances. My mom just sent me my childhood scrapbook and I poured over the program.

2. The Millenium Parade music at EPCOT??? YES!!!! Also the fountain music at the front of EPCOT. And the pipe and drum band in the Americana pavilion. And...I'll stop.

3. I can hear the dictation scene from Amadeus just from reading it on your list. What a phenomenal movie, and an excellent choice for your favorite scene.

4. Are you Filipino? (Phillipino? Which is correct?) When I charged evenings I used to joke that I was the only non-Filipino on the shift. I ate a lot of pancet. And I started speaking English with a Tagalog accent. Those were some of my favorite times in the OR. That's just in the for-what-it's-worth category.

5. I'll be stealing your meme. Hope that's not a problem. :-)

katy (aka funny girl) said...

Just realized I said "Americana Pavilion"...what a dope. Obviously that's the American Pavilion. Duh.

T. said...

Hi, Katy! No problem about the "giant meme" thing - I basically stole it of you! (Just kept adding, and adding, and adding...)

I am indeed Filipino, and one of my favorite blow-off-steam activities where I trained was to spik inglis wid a pilipino/Tagalog ahk-sent wid da nurses, Filipino and non-Filipino alike! Too funny...

I can't believe there's someone out there who even REMEMBERS the Epcot millennium parade! Woohoo.

Just another lawyer said...

Hi T,
I loved this post. I will only comment on one item: your favorite church (of course!). I, too, love the Shrine in DC. I especially love the huge mosaic of Jesus at the front over the altar. The determined, almost angry look on his face has always challenged me to listen to Him.

I hope you and your family will come visit us in DC so we can share this space with our kids!

T. said...

Hi, justanotherlawyer - (you're so NOT, by the way. "just another lawyer," I mean) - we are so sad your move will take you farther away from us, but happy to have an excuse to return to my home grounds in the DC area. Can't wait for the day we can bring our little ones to enjoy the glorious shrine and have some good DC area eats! :)

Kirti said...

Ooo...this is fun...I might have to make one too!